DiscoverDear Son,Dear Son, We Need to Talk | Digging Below the Surface | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 135
Dear Son, We Need to Talk | Digging Below the Surface | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 135

Dear Son, We Need to Talk | Digging Below the Surface | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 135

Update: 2025-04-18
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Welcome to The Dear Son, Show! In this episode, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive into the importance of having real, impactful conversations with young boys and men on the verge of major life milestones. Drawing from personal experiences, the hosts discuss how to ask the right questions to get meaningful answers, the importance of checking in beyond routine responses, and why it's vital to support your children's true passions—even if they differ from your expectations. This powerful discussion is also inspired by a recent tragedy, emphasizing the importance of doing real-life check-ins. If you want to equip the young men in your life with the wisdom you wish you had, this episode is a must-watch. Like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest conversations!


00:00:00 Welcome to The Dear Son, Show

00:00:26 The Importance of Real Conversations

00:01:34 Dear Son, Let's Talk

00:02:52 Tragic Events and Real-Life Check-ins

00:04:21 Graduation Milestones and Parental Guidance

00:05:45 Navigating Post-High School Decisions

00:16:43 Comparing Paths and Individual Journeys

00:20:08 Modern Career Advice for the Next Generation

00:23:34 Meeting Mentors and Learning Procurement

00:24:14 A Challenging Lesson from a Manager

00:25:20 The Importance of Explaining the Right Thing

00:25:47 Parenting and the Right Answers

00:27:39 Supporting Children's True Passions

00:28:51 Avoiding Personal Regret in Parenting

00:31:48 Balancing Parental Expectations and Children's Desires

00:37:09 Planning for Children's Futures

00:42:05 The Value of Discipline and Finishing What You Start

00:44:04 Final Thoughts and Announcements


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Dear Son, We Need to Talk | Digging Below the Surface | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 135

Dear Son, We Need to Talk | Digging Below the Surface | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 135

Derek Johns